Why not planning your wedding might be the best plan of all It's been three months since we ran off and got married on our favorite ocean. True, the whole wedding thing was a bit too spontaneous for everybody except us. After all, we've been together for 11 years already, wouldn't you expect that we had a little more time to plan the whole thing? Well, yes. But that's not who we are. I remember that, right after the engagement, we were sitting next to each other on that rooft